Apparently, she was with her friend and her friend's friend (ok let's call her person A because idk who she is anyways). They were chatting and suddenly shivaa found out that person A's CCA is guitar! So she asked her, "oh so do you know Jaslyn?"
And person A replied "oh ya I know Jaslyn she's quite popular".
Whut o_o
Honestly I felt quite incredulous because I feel like I'm not popular at all. What exactly makes a person popular anyway?
For me, a popular person has to fulfil these criteria:
a) good looking or reasonably above average - that person's face would be symmetrical and/or conform to the golden ratio for him/her to be considered attractive. Honestly, many popular people are good-looking. Heck even fat Amy looks reasonably okay. I do think she's quite pretty LOL
So as long as you're pleasing to the eyes, you're on your way to be considered popular by Jaslyn's standards lol
b) well liked by many - this is quite difficult to define... Hmm I guess it just means your presence is welcome for most groups of people? If people hate or even moderately dislike you, it's really easy to tell (at least, it is for me)
c) not awkward with others - well I'm pretty sure an awkward turtle isn't going to be particularly "popular" because popular people have this air of confidence around them. Confident, NOT COCKY. If you're cocky then please walk out the door and kill yourself because NO ONE LIKES COCKY PEOPLE.
d) be cool - this is such an abstract concept n_n"" because.... What makes a person cool? Is it because they have something you don't have? Is it humour and wit? Personally I feel that people with humour and wit are the coolest people around, like Jiaqin Gideon and yongwei! Sometimes Laura becomes really witty too but it's more like the tumblr funny. All types of humour are welcome anyways n_n
And I don't think I fulfil all 4 criteria?? Maybe b) and c) but not the other two LOL
But I'm thinking that maybe person A said that because I'm always talking to the boys? u_u I can't help it.... I feel like they are more relatable and easy to talk to. Just like why I hang out with yongwei Gideon and occasionally Jerrold- because they are easy to talk to. Sometimes even easier than girls.
Anyway, I feel like most of the girls in my school are a weird bunch. I hardly relate to them T_T
Especially some girls in my class...
Ok take S.O. for example. I don't hate or dislike her but when I speak to her she has to reply to me in a sarcastic and sometimes even condescending manner. Sometimes situations just don't warrant your supposedly smart mouth (but you're not witty at all.... Unfortunately ^_^"") but overall I feel like she's actually pleasant to the people she thinks are worthy of her attention =_=
So I guess she aint all that bad
Recently I've been in and out of cliques. I do not stick to a particular group and just move whenever I feel like it. It's not a bad thing AT ALL. I feel like I have so much freedom to be with whomever I want and have a whole variety of company to be with n_n
I'm aware that some people in my class do not like each other but the problem is I am friends with both of them! So I just pretend like I do not know they hate each other u_u it would suck if I can't be with another group just because of some petty dislike going on.
Ok and mom is bugging me to sleep AHHH IT'S ALREADY 12MN
おやすみ!
jaslynnxxx
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